5 He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!”
New can be a good thing or a bad thing, just depends on the circumstance or situatioin.. A new job can be exciting, unless you lost your last job and didn't want to look for one. A new relationship can be good, unless you are still pining over the last one that ended that wasn't your choice. A new start can be nice, unless you are still living or dwelling on the past, which will make it difficult to start over.
Regadless of the situation good or bad, things will become "NEW" at times whether we want them to or not. I think it's more of an attitude or outlook that we need as opposed to making things worse or prolonging the inevitable.
Sometimes we need to start over in a new job, a new town, a new church, a new relationship, or new scenary whether it was our choice or not. We need to understand that God is still God no matter our earthly circumstances and as the scrpture above indicates with God all things are new.
I can relate in my life right now. I am in a new town, a new church, a new job, and a new opportunity. Ofcourse, this newness was my choice, but the church I'm coming to didn't have a choice they weren't looking for something new, but their minister of the last 2 1/2 years passed away back in May unexpectedly of a heart attack, so whether they wanted or intended to start over, God had other plans for them.The church I just left serving will start a new day with a new minister and so the new things continue.
I am not sure what you are facing today, dealing with, going through, or whatever? Maybe you want some things to be new, maybe you didn't want anything to change, or you don't feel you are ready for something new? Either way, having a bad attitude, blaming others, sulking, or feeling sorry for yourself won't change the fact that you may have to start over or begin a new day with new things.
My encouragement for you is whether you wanted new or not to embrace it, seek God and trust Him and ask for His help, guidance, strength, or whatever it is you may need in your situation. But, above all don't make things worse by being negative.